Apologies

Something my mom and I have been talking about, is letting those around us in on some information. I may have touched on R's need for seclusion and being withdrawn. It got me to thinking.

I have decided to write up a sheet for our loved ones who don't know much about bipolar, about R's illness. When I was thinking what i'd write up I wanted all of them and you that read this to know something. When my sweet man is in his dark place he doesn't like to talk or do anything. So I don't want you all to have your feelings hurt. I am in the process of learning this my self.  If you call, write or even see him and he isn't his happy, talkative self, or when you ask him to join in or do something and he doesn't respond or agree to something, please understand its not you, he is dealing with his disease and it causes him to act different.

If you have questions it's ok to ask us/me. I like to think that I am open and honest. If you "hear" something and you need a straight answer or if the kids say something and want to make sure you heard right. It's ok to ask. That's how we learn! I like to go straight to the source rather than getting what might not be the truth.

We love you all and thank you for your love. You may not always understand, but you still support us. Thank you!!